Monday, July 15, 2013

"Some problems we share as women, some we do not." But we all share the right to be totally irrational and random

Some problems we share as women, some we do not. You [white women] fear your children will grow up to join the patriarchy and testify against you; we fear our children will be dragged from a car and shot down in the street, and you will turn your backs on the reasons they are dying.

— Audre Lorde, “Age, Race, Class, and Sex: Women Redefining Difference”

This is what some women actually internalize as a reasonable argument.
If that is truly your fear... and you do nothing about it - that makes you at the best one of the most ineffectual mothers in the world or at worst: a horrible self-perpetuating cartoon of empowered womanhood.

Get over it - it is not a patriarchal conspiracy - it is YOUR failure - every day... every decade.

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